On Showing Up If you have something meaningful to say and fail to say it because of what people will say, your laziness, anxiety, fear, etc., you have given up control over yourself and your work to any of these menaces. You mean to say, “I have given laziness the wheel to my life and…
On Triggers and Insecurities We all have our insecurities, and there is always something that triggers our insecurities from time to time. According to WebMD, Insecurity is a feeling of inadequacy (not being good enough) and uncertainty. In addition, it produces anxiety about your goals, relationships, and ability to handle certain situations. We all have…
On responsibility and control In a recent post by Seth Godin, he talked about responsibility and control. Responsibility and control are primarily a product of our choices. For control, we give it up sometimes to wield it some other time. For example, you might not be able to decide the speed of a public bus….
On Relationships and Accountability People are our covering, they say. This is essentially what relationships are about. But unfortunately, this sort of relationship demands that relationships and accountability work side by side. I recently made a hasty decision. Just before I went ahead to execute, I sent a voice note to one of my aunts,…
On Managing Anger “I lost control”, “I couldn’t manage my anger” etc are all lies we tell ourselves after we have done what we shouldn’t have. This is the open form of anger where we tend to lash out in rage, becoming verbally or physically abusive. Anger doesn’t also have to be open and loud….
On Accountability Being accountable is scary because it demands a certain level of dedication and responsibility from our end. Yet being accountable and responsible are traits everyone should have. A lot of people think they want freedom meanwhile what they need is accountability. You do not attain a certain level of freedom without being accountable…
On Consistency Consistency is very hard and I deeply respect anyone who is consistent at doing something remarkable. However, the mistake a lot of people make is thinking inconsistency is the opposite of consistency. When people say they are inconsistent what they mean is that they are consistent at doing the wrong things. Consistency is…
On What People Think What people think about you is not who you are. It is simply what they perceive about you. Whether they are wrong or right isn’t the problem. The problem is you gave them the permission to control who you are. Are you a puppet? Or do you want to cause a…
On Heartbreaks and Betrayals. Heartbreaks and Betrayals are harrowing events. Trust me; if you’ve not experienced one, you don’t want to. But, unfortunately, it is pretty difficult not to experience one in this time and age. As painful as heartbreaks and betrayals may be, it is worrisome how traumatizing it can be for some people….
On Insecurities Do you experience that feeling of inadequacy where you begin to second guess yourself and look for ways to accept that you are not good enough? It could be about your body, mannerism, intellect, belief system, etc. Well, that is what insecurity feels like. We all have our insecurities, and it plays that…
