Don’t Be a Simp: On Simping According to Wikipedia, A simp is an internet slang term describing someone who shows excessive sympathy and attention toward another person, typically someone who does not reciprocate the same feelings in pursuit of affection or a sexual relationship. In a more relatable way, simping is the act of a…
The Sufferhead Syndrome: Stop Glorifying Suffering Many of those not Davido’s fans are not one because they believe it was easy for him. After all, his father was wealthy. Many Ronaldo fans don’t support Messi because he is naturally talented, but Ronaldo works hard. Some men would not date a wealthy lady because they believe…
The Beauty of Rejection The beauty of rejection is that it allows you to do better or do something better. Rejection is not a menace. It is a way of life, a product of every decision we make. When we have options, we are bound to make a choice and also reject other choices. If…
On Healthy Living Good health is a privilege not everyone enjoys. One major health challenge can wipe off one’s life savings. Nobody needs to tell you that the earth is degrading and depreciating. Different types and forms of diseases are on the rise daily. Cancer, Kidney failure, Breathing problems, Diabetes, Hypertension, and countless others. You…
The Secret to Being a Great Writer ? Becoming a great writer isn’t an easy feat. It is tremendously difficult. Yet, it is as simple as starting to write. If you are worried about getting it all right at the beginning, you just might never be a great writer. Do something else. But to be…
On Imitation and Influence Imitation and influence are significant players in our lives. People we interact with influence us one way or the other. We also tend to imitate cues, actions, and attitudes we see other people do. It is just natural. Imitation has been termed a bad thing. But unfortunately, the educational system takes…
On Entitlement Mentality Entitlement mentality is a disorder, a narcissistic personality trait that claims someone or some people owe you for doing almost nothing for them. Your money is your money; your time is your time. This is the same for me. My money is my money; my time is my time. You are not…
Gifts, Giving & Generosity Much of what we call giving & generosity is plain selfishness as it is built solely on the so-called benefits of giving. We claim to be strategic when it comes to giving by asking ourselves questions like: What is in it for me? Will this person give it to me if…
On Beginnings and Endings Not every beginning has the end we desire, but every beginning always comes to an end. It is often not about the beginnings and endings but the journey. You might not get what you had in mind, but the most important thing is that you started something, tried to make it…
Fight Languages We know of Gary Chapman’s 5 Love languages. Very popular and well accepted. I also wrote about it some months ago and caught quite the buzz. However, there is also the opposite side of this which is not quite popular and mainstream which I refer to as fight languages When we talk about…
