Another View on Rejection – Abridged Version
Another View on Rejection
Rejection is very hard to deal with. Yet, it is inevitable. There is just somebody that does not want you.
But, rejection is also a blessing in disguise. When someone says I do not want to be with you, they simply are saving you a lot of effort you would have to put into that relationship or contract.
When an employer says they are not going with you, they are either saying, we are shortsighted and cannot see what you bring to the table or they want you to go and work on becoming better at that thing.
Either way, that is to your benefit. You just need to have the balls to look rejection in the face, accept it and move on to the next.
You want to be where you are wanted and with people that want you.
Hence, rejection is a signal. A signal to know if you are wanted or not.
Rejection does not define you. Rejection allows you to be better or to find something better.