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We Are Messed Up This is not one of those blog posts with a title as click bait. This is real and you can confirm it. You just need to be open minded Have you ever been called a name you never wanted? Like Blackie, Shorty, Yellow Paw Paw? How did it make you feel?…

The Good Problem We are so negative in our thinking that we see words like problem, challenges, regrets as bad things. When we hear “there is a problem,” the first thing that comes to mind is usually a negative evaluation of what could have gone wrong. Recently, I had a chat with Adeyinka Micheal about…

Gifts, Giving & Generosity Much of what we call giving & generosity is plain selfishness as it is built solely on the so-called benefits of giving. We claim to be strategic when it comes to giving by asking ourselves questions like: What is in it for me? Will this person give it to me if…

On Giving and Receiving To the receiver, the act of giving is, firstly, to teach giving before the meeting of that need.  We have a skewed definition of giving and receiving, and as such, we have conditioned our minds to always be on the receiving end. Meanwhile, we have so much to give. We have been…

On Accountability Being accountable is scary because it demands a certain level of dedication and responsibility from our end. Yet being accountable and responsible are traits everyone should have. A lot of people think they want freedom meanwhile what they need is accountability. You do not attain a certain level of freedom without being accountable…