Start Again Time is a reminder that you can start again. Life is an opportunity to start again. Your goals and milestones exist within the boundaries of time. Luckily for you, time is your greatest asset. So, use it to your advantage. You failed to meet your targets in April. Well, May is another opportunity…
I was just a tender 5-year-old when I bore witness to the heart-wrenching loss of my beloved father. The memory etched in my mind is that of his passing, with his life slipping away right before my eyes. For years, I carried the weight of guilt, convinced that my feeble hands were somehow responsible for…
Effort – How to Take Control of your Life. For the past few days, I have tinkered around with the idea of what it means to put a lot of effort into a particular thing and see it yield results – good or bad. In trying to untangle this thought, I quickly came to realize…
On Relationships and Breakups Maintaining relationships can be very hard and I think we underestimate this fact a lot. We have an idea of what the perfect love story looks like. We live in fantasies that cloud our judgment on the realities of managing a relationship. Also, misinformation can be another factor. We often tend…
Another View on Rejection Rejection is very hard to deal with. Yet, it is inevitable. There is just somebody that does not want you. But, rejection is also a blessing in disguise. When someone says I do not want to be with you, they simply are saving you a lot of effort you would have…
Count the Cost Good enough is not usually good enough. It is mediocre, average, and below you. If you want anything, I do not see any reason why you should not do all you can legally to get that thing. Many people glamorize success more than necessary. The media makes the job of an entrepreneur…
On Taking Initiatives We know the right thing to do. We always do. The problem is that most times, the right thing is always the difficult thing to do, and because the self will naturally seek convenience, we always would want to opt for the easy thing which might bring us momentary pleasure or happiness….
Prioritize your Happiness You deserve to be happy, but happiness does not wait for you. You go for it. It comes with a lot of hard work. If you want something, go for it. You want to live your life with the intention that whatever you do will contribute to your happiness. You want to…
Show Up When you pay the doctor to treat you, you expect that they deliver on the promise. You don’t care if they have some family problems or financial troubles or if their child has some problem or their marriage is failing. You expect that they get you back on your feet and nothing less….
The Importance of Talking Stage I had an important conversation with my friend, Tumilara, and she noted some things I want to share with you. One of the things she spoke about was the talking stage and how she has come to realize its importance Many people jump into relationships without realizing how important it…
