Don’t Be a Simp: On Simping
Don’t Be a Simp: On Simping
According to Wikipedia, A simp is an internet slang term describing someone who shows excessive sympathy and attention toward another person, typically someone who does not reciprocate the same feelings in pursuit of affection or a sexual relationship.
In a more relatable way, simping is the act of a man being all nice and feminine in a bit to get a lady to date them or, in extreme cases, to have sex with them.
Naturally, ladies like masculine men as it signals that they can provide and protect. But, conversely, Simping signals that the man in question cannot protect and provide.
In fairness, I don’t think the issue ladies have with simps is the niceness but the signal they get from such unnecessary niceness. Ladies seem to like men to be Alphas.
So, here are tips I think you should avoid as a guy in other not to signal simping,
• If a lady doesn’t like you, don’t bother trying to impress them. Let them be.
• Stop saying things like, “where’s my hug” “what would I eat” and all of those cliche statements.
• If a lady says No, don’t beg for a Yes.
• Don’t be unnecessarily kind. If you are kind enough to help a lady, do it, expecting nothing in return.
It is important to note that being kind or nice is not bad. But it is easy for people to see your intentions through your actions. However, this does not mean it cannot be misinterpreted.
Also, not wanting to be a simp doesn’t excuse you from being intentional about the person you claim to like. No, the dividing line.
Note: I might be wrong about all these, but I’d love your opinion.
Is being a simp a red flag? If yes, why?
