Identity Crisis – Who Are You? An identity crisis, as the name implies, is when a person begins to question their sense of sense and place in the world. An identity crisis is usually a result of one’s inability to form an identity about the self. There is a conflict between who you are, what…
On Relationships and Breakups Maintaining relationships can be very hard and I think we underestimate this fact a lot. We have an idea of what the perfect love story looks like. We live in fantasies that cloud our judgment on the realities of managing a relationship. Also, misinformation can be another factor. We often tend…
Another View on Rejection Rejection is very hard to deal with. Yet, it is inevitable. There is just somebody that does not want you. But, rejection is also a blessing in disguise. When someone says I do not want to be with you, they simply are saving you a lot of effort you would have…
Count the Cost Good enough is not usually good enough. It is mediocre, average, and below you. If you want anything, I do not see any reason why you should not do all you can legally to get that thing. Many people glamorize success more than necessary. The media makes the job of an entrepreneur…
On Taking Initiatives We know the right thing to do. We always do. The problem is that most times, the right thing is always the difficult thing to do, and because the self will naturally seek convenience, we always would want to opt for the easy thing which might bring us momentary pleasure or happiness….
Prioritize your Happiness You deserve to be happy, but happiness does not wait for you. You go for it. It comes with a lot of hard work. If you want something, go for it. You want to live your life with the intention that whatever you do will contribute to your happiness. You want to…
The Importance of Talking Stage I had an important conversation with my friend, Tumilara, and she noted some things I want to share with you. One of the things she spoke about was the talking stage and how she has come to realize its importance Many people jump into relationships without realizing how important it…
The Bearest Minimum – Aim Higher It is easy to do the bearest minimum. Very easy! But guess what? The bearest minimum takes you nowhere close to your dreams, goals, and desire. The bearest minimum doesn’t stretch you. It leaves you just where you are. If you get a job, going above and beyond shouldn’t…
Fix your Problems. Don’t run If you had a health challenge today, the natural response is to seek help from professionals to get it sorted or cured. If you had your account blocked, the next response is to get to the bank to resolve that. If your car broke down today, the next action would…
On Finding Yourself One of the most foolish statements I have heard is, “This is how I am.” It is the voice of ignorance and arrogance. Many times, we love to believe that we know who we are and what our identity is but that is far from the truth because we are constantly changing,…
