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Identity Crisis – Who Are You?

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Identity Crisis – Who Are You?

February 12, 2023February 12, 2023

Childhood Trauma Disguising as Love Languages.

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General

Childhood Trauma Disguising as Love Languages.

July 12, 2022July 12, 2022

We All Have Privileges – A Manifesto

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We All Have Privileges – A Manifesto

March 27, 2022March 27, 2022

The Power of Positive Self-Talk

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Creativity

The Power of Positive Self-Talk

February 20, 2022February 20, 2022

On Insecurities

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On Insecurities

July 29, 2021July 29, 2021

The Attributional Theory of Shame.

Shame

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The Attributional Theory of Shame.

The Attributional Theory of Shame. In my studies, I have come across 2 major theories of shame – the information threat theory and the attributional

July 8, 2021 No Comments

Comparative Suffering

Shame

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Comparative Suffering

Comparative Suffering There’s no hierarchy of pain. Suffering shouldn’t be ranked, because pain is not a contest.” Lori Gottlieb Have you heard statements like, “Thank

July 19, 2021 No Comments

Childhood Trauma Disguising as Love Languages.

General

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Childhood Trauma Disguising as Love Languages.

Childhood Trauma Disguising as Love Languages. I have been wondering of recent the correlation between our childhood trauma and our Love Languages. Could our love

July 12, 2022 7 Comments

Two Kinds of Learning

Creativity

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Two Kinds of Learning: Breaking Free

Two Kinds of Learning: Breaking Free Few days ago, at the writers’ community weekly meetup, we had a change in event of things and it

February 21, 2021 3 Comments

Is shame good or bad

Shame

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Is Shame Good or Bad?

Is shame good or bad? In the last article, I explained the origin of shame from an evolutionary perspective. In every research work I have

July 5, 2021 No Comments

Lizard Brain

Leadership

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Singing the Praises of the Lizard Brain

If you haven’t heard of the lizard brain before, I wouldn’t be surprised. It is not a name that is appealing neither does it have

January 28, 2021 No Comments

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Effort – How to Take Control of your Life.

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On Relationships and Breakups

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